Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate by Arielle Ford Summary
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Transform your partner into your forever person with Arielle Ford's relationship-saving guide. Praised by relationship guru John Gray as offering "immediate ways to breathe new life into old relationships." What if the soulmate you're seeking is already sleeping beside you?
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The Dangerous Fairy Tale That's Sabotaging Your Love Life
Your partner leaves dirty dishes in the sink again. You've asked a hundred times. The irritation bubbles up-how can someone who claims to love you ignore something so simple? Here's what nobody tells you: that person driving you crazy might be doing exactly what they're supposed to do. Not because they're cruel, but because relationships aren't designed to be easy-they're designed to make us whole. We've been fed a toxic myth since childhood. From Disney princesses to rom-coms, we've learned that true love means effortless understanding, perpetual passion, and a partner who never annoys us. Then reality arrives. That magical person who once seemed perfect now leaves you wondering what happened. Their quirks aren't charming anymore-they're maddening. You start questioning everything: Did I choose wrong? Is this all there is? What if I told you it's supposed to feel this way? Ancient philosopher Aristophanes described humans as originally complete beings with four arms, four legs, and two faces. When these powerful creatures threatened the gods, Zeus split them apart, scattering them across the world. This explains our deep yearning to find our "other half" and that euphoric feeling when we think we've found them. But here's the part nobody mentions: achieving wholeness requires confronting and healing our deepest wounds. Your soulmate isn't the person who completes you effortlessly-they're the one uniquely qualified to trigger every unresolved issue you carry. That's not a bug in the system. That's the whole point.
The Truth About Soulmates Nobody Wants to Hear
Why Men Aren't Just Hairy Women (And Why That Matters)
The Stories That Shape Your Love (And How to Rewrite Them)
When Conflict Becomes Connection
Finding Beauty in the Poppy Seeds
The Choice That Changes Everything
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From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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